Once you have joined an internet dating service, you will find that there a lot more men than women and that the men are much more likely to browse profiles and make initial contacts than women. Yes, it’s a woman’s world…still. It’s “traditional” for men to make the first move. It always has been and it always will be. Some things never change. That’s why your profile and picture are so important.

Remember to be confident and interesting and this would not be not cocky and self-centered. It’s important that your profile lets people know that you have friends you care about and that you are passionately interested in a variety of things and not only sports. Another thing about that all-important profile. So please do not start it with, “I’m the guy your mama warned you about”.

You will have just shot yourself in the foot with that line. Another one to never use is, “I could be the man of your dreams”. The lady HOPES you are but she will be the judge of tha, so you should not insult her intelligence. Remember that exuding confidence and interesting and you will find that lady you have been looking for or she will find you.

Won’t it be nice to have the ladies contacting you instead of you having to do everything? If you write a great profile that stands out in the crowd, that will happen.